Solutions For Families


Having a loving, healthy family is pure joy on earth. We all want it!

And we know how important families are.

So why is having a happy, peaceful family – with people who communicate kindly with one another – so very difficult? Because relationships are complex.

I hope you’ve come to this website seeking solutions. For if you have, you’ve come to the right place!

All of my work is based on research. This is very important to my husband, Dr. Gilbert Fellingham, a University Professor of Statistics. And I agree that it’s vitally important to teach only those principles grounded in truth and indisputable fact.

Solutions For Families is a program designed to strengthen families. It is the product of twenty-six years of relationship-related research, learning, writing, and professional speaking, tempered and enhanced by personal experience.

Just a few of the life-changing secrets that you’ll learn from “Solutions Portrait of Happy Family In ParkFor Families” are:

  • How to instantly eliminate whining and negative talk in your home. Just imagine…no more whining or rude tones of voice! (And I’ve had 100% success with this!)
  • 3 simple sentences that put an immediate end to name-calling, hitting, and quarreling. (These are the same three sentences I told the mother with quarreling children – who later called and reported instant results)
  • 5 easy things that keep you close to your teenager. “They’re almost magic in their effectiveness!
  • Simple, straightforward words to improve your marriage relationship…tonight! (These words make weak marriages strong and good marriages great)
  • 3 easy steps to defuse any angry person.


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Ambassador Mohktar Lamani, at the United Nations:
“Paula Fellingham has the wonderful ability of empowering people to improve their lives and their relationships. As she strengthens individuals and families, she is strengthening communities and nations by providing solutions that work.”

Jill Donnelly, President of World Movement of Mothers, Paris, France:
“Paula, you’re doing wonderful things to strengthen families in America. The good work you’re doing is needed now, more than ever before in the history of our world, as we sadly watch the disintegration of the family. It’s happening in every nation on the face of the earth. If only we had more women like you to lead families toward a brighter tomorrow!”

Roger Merrill, co-author of First Things First:
“Finally, here is a real-world, kitchen-table resource for building strong and happy family relationships.”

Dr. Michele Borba, author of Parents Do Make a Difference:
“I love Solutions For Families! I think it’s timely, relevant, and right on the mark. Paula Fellingham offers sensible, wise, research-based advice on how we can build stronger, kinder families during these turbulent times. It’s a powerful guide filled with wonderful, practical ideas and real solutions that will make a significant difference in parenting. I highly recommend it.”

Calvin W. Harper, co-founder of StreetSmart, a national award-winning video series:
“Solutions For Families offers real answers to the problems involved in teaching children respect, responsibility, accountability and honor. If you have children, you need this!”

Melissa Clay, seminar attendee, Los Angeles, CA:
“The principles Paula Fellingham teaches have changed my life. My every relationship has improved because of what I learned at her seminar in Los Angeles. Instead of speaking in vague generalities, Paula gives parents the very words to say which help us raise obedient, respectful and caring children.”

Angela Webb, seminar attendee, Boise, ID:
“Solutions For Families is incredible! Now I feel like I know what I’m doing. I’m parenting with knowledge instead of just guessing how to do it right. Every family, everywhere, needs this information!”

Marcia Ford, President, American Mothers, Inc:
“As Washington State Young Mother of the Year, you made a huge difference in your community and in the state. Thank you for teaching principles that have changed lives and dramatically affected families for good. When parents implement your strategies in their homes, the positive effects are felt for generations to come.”

Meeting planner Jodi Wilding, American Mothers, Inc:
“Paula Fellingham had every meeting attendee absolutely mesmerized. She combines her unbelievable wealth of knowledge with humor and passion that’s contagious. I found myself laughing along with everyone as Paula shared stories and examples that were all too ‘close to home’ and then tearing up as Paula shared insights and principles that touched my heart and will help me change my life.
Paula Fellingham is, hands down, the best keynote speaker our association has ever had. She is easy to work with and over-the-top fabulous. As the meeting planner, she made me a hero with our members.”

Paul Brockbank, former VIP of Franklin-Covey; current CEO of
“Paula, you are gifted and special – nothing short of inspiring. Your life is amazing and you are incredible. You have the code cracked in a wonderful way.”

Pavel Suian Ambassador from Romania:
“Paula, your Solutions For Families program has the power to touch countless lives for good. The families who use your valuable information and parenting advice will be forever grateful to you. My best wishes for success in the United States and worldwide as you endeavor to strengthen families.”

Thomas Chock, seminar attendee:
“Thank you for your great ideas about parenting. I’ve already used your principles with my son and I was successful! It felt great!”

Sharon Merritt, seminar attendee:
“Thank you so much for the wonderful presentations! My husband and I both
enjoyed them so much and learned much that we wish we had known many years ago when our children were younger. Your topics were so well organized and well presented, with clarity and no bunk or useless rhetoric. Please tell me where I can get your video and anything else you produce!”

Emily Curtis, university student:
“I appreciate you very much. I learned more from you than I ever thought possible. I have had many family problems, and now I know how to handle
them. Thank you again!”

Neil and Kathryn Anderson, radio show listeners:
“We have been listening to your ‘Solutions For Families’ radio show and enjoy your insight and philosophy. We are very impressed. We’d love to have all of the information we can get from you.”

Steve Howes, seminar attendee:
“I want to thank you so much for your work with families. I came away moved, uplifted and determined to make changes in my life. Thank you for showing the way and helping me to be motivated to move forward.”

Lonnie McLaughlin, University student:
“In all honesty, Paula Fellingham is the best teacher I’ve had in my seven semesters at this university. Her enthusiasm for family and motherhood radiates in every fiber of her being. It is because she has been diligent in her family that she is a success in teaching. Thank you for what you have done for all of us.”

Stephanie Atwood, seminar attendee:
“Not only did I love your words and wisdom but I truly felt some of your words were directed right to me. You inspired me to be better and to try harder to be a better person. Thanks. I am also looking forward to your new book and can’t wait to read it.”

Rebecca Soderquist, university student:
“I love Paula Fellingham’s enthusiasm, personality, insights, information
and experiences. When she taught I felt like I was drinking from a firehose and is was marvelous! I love her energy!”

Sandy Olsen, university student:
“I really enjoyed the practical application that you teach along with the principles. I hope this information will help me be a better individual,
wife and mother. Thank you so very much! You are an excellent and gifted teacher. I feel it is a great blessing to have been in your class.”

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